Sacred Fertility Flow Podcast

In this deeply compassionate episode of Sacred Fertility Flow, Ashley Holmes is joined by Sharna Southan, founder of the Institute of Healing through Pregnancy Loss and host of the podcast “What I Wish I Knew Beyond Pregnancy Loss,” for a powerful conversation about reproductive trauma, pregnancy loss, and embodied healing.

Together, Ashley and Sharna explore why pregnancy loss is often treated solely as grief while the deeper physiological, neurological, emotional, and identity-shifting impacts remain largely unrecognized. This episode creates space for women navigating miscarriage, infertility, IVF, stillbirth, reproductive trauma, or the silent heartbreak that can accompany fertility struggles.

Sharna shares her personal healing journey and the work she now does supporting women through the complexities of pregnancy loss and nervous system healing. Through her lived experience and professional insight, she offers a compassionate perspective on what it truly means to feel witnessed, supported, and safe after loss.

Inside this episode, Ashley and Sharna discuss:
• The difference between grief and reproductive trauma
• Why many women feel dismissed after miscarriage or loss
• The physiological and neurological impacts of pregnancy loss
• Identity shifts and redefining yourself after loss
• Giving yourself permission to pause your fertility journey
• Practical ways loved ones can support grieving mothers
• Reconnecting with your body and womb space after trauma
• The role of embodiment, validation, and community in healing
• Spiritual questioning, self-trust, and purpose after loss

This conversation is an invitation to soften the pressure, honor your experience, and remember that healing does not need to be rushed or performed.

✨ About Sharna:
Sharna is the founder of the Institute of Healing through Pregnancy Loss and host of the podcast “What I Wish I Knew Beyond Pregnancy Loss.” Her work supports women in moving beyond intellectualizing their grief and into embodied healing after reproductive trauma and pregnancy loss.

✨ Connect with Sharna:
Podcast: “What I Wish I Knew Beyond Pregnancy Loss”
Institute of Healing through Pregnancy Loss
Website: http://www.sharnasouthan.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sharnsouthan

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reproductivelossleadership/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharna-southan-4a4684147/

✨ About Ashley Holmes:
Ashley Holmes is a Holistic Fertility Coach and host of Sacred Fertility Flow. She supports women navigating fertility, conception, pregnancy after loss, and nervous system healing through holistic modalities, mindset work, spirituality, embodiment, and emotional support.

✨ Connect with Ashley Holmes:
Email: yogaforfertility7@gmail.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ashley.holmes.3979

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashley_holmes3202/

LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/ashley-holmes-b165a1211

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Interview Recap

 

This podcast episode featured a conversation between Ashley Holmes and Sharna, founder of the Institute of Healing through Pregnancy Loss, discussing reproductive trauma versus general grief following pregnancy loss. Sharna explained how traditional grief counseling often misses the deeper physiological and neurological aspects of pregnancy loss, which can leave women feeling dismissed and unresolved. They discussed the importance of giving women permission to process their experiences without external pressure, the role of support systems in providing practical help while allowing space for emotional processing, and strategies for reconnecting with one's body after loss. Sharna shared her personal healing journey and emphasized the need for embodied approaches rather than intellectualizing the experience, while also discussing how pregnancy loss can lead to spiritual questioning but ultimately deepens one's connection to self and purpose.

 

Sacred Fertility & Reproductive Trauma

 

Ashley and Sharna began their recorded conversation by addressing technical issues and ensuring audio quality. Ashley introduced the podcast "Sacred Fertility Flow" and outlined its focus on holistic fertility and healing. Sharna was welcomed as a guest and recognized for her work in pioneering the understanding of pregnancy loss as reproductive trauma rather than general grief. The discussion was set to explore Sharna's expertise and the importance of this distinction in healing processes.

 

Pregnancy Loss Support Gaps

Sharna discussed her experience with pregnancy loss and the limitations of traditional grief support, explaining that many women find the support insufficient as it addresses only emotional aspects while overlooking the physical trauma their bodies experience. She noted that pregnancy loss often goes unacknowledged by medical professionals, leading to unaddressed trauma and hindered healing for many women. Sharna emphasized the importance of recognizing the body's role in storing trauma and suggested that a more comprehensive approach is needed to truly support women through their healing journeys.

 

Women’s Miscarriage Support Experiences

Sharna and Ashley discussed the experiences of women who undergo miscarriages or early deliveries, highlighting the physiological and neurological responses they face that are often not acknowledged by the medical system. Sharna shared her personal experience of feeling dismissed and unacknowledged, emphasizing the impact on identity and the challenge of seeking support. They agreed that recognizing these experiences as valid and providing appropriate support in those moments could help address the gap in understanding and care for affected individuals.

 

Pregnancy Loss and Identity Rediscovery

Sharna discussed the psychological and physiological impact of pregnancy loss, explaining how the body and mind become stuck in a state of expectation even after the loss occurs. She described how this creates an inner turmoil as individuals grapple with questions about their identity and sense of belonging. Sharna shared her personal approach to coping with this loss, which involved stripping back her previous identity and allowing herself to redefine who she wanted to become moving forward.

Navigating Grief in Fertility Journeys

Ashley and Sharna discussed the challenges of navigating grief and loss, particularly during fertility journeys. They emphasized the importance of giving oneself permission to be where they are emotionally, rather than adhering to external pressures or timelines. Sharna highlighted the value of taking a "pause" in the fertility process when needed, suggesting that it's okay to step back and focus on personal needs without invalidating one's experiences. Both speakers stressed the importance of tuning out external noise and focusing on personal values and self-acceptance.

 

Reproductive Loss Support and Healing

Sharna and Ashley discussed the importance of allowing time for healing after experiencing reproductive trauma or pregnancy loss, emphasizing that taking a break can actually benefit fertility and overall well-being. They explored how friends and family can support someone going through grief, suggesting practical actions like offering specific help with daily tasks, using the baby's name in conversation, and simply sitting with the person in silence without trying to "fix" their pain. The discussion concluded with Sharna advising that reconnecting with one's body after loss can be gradual, starting with small changes and acknowledging that the body may still be in a state of threat.

 

Pregnancy Loss Healing Discussion

Sharna and Ashley discussed healing from pregnancy loss, focusing on the importance of acknowledging and processing physical and emotional trauma. Sharna shared her personal experience of reconnecting with her body and womb space after loss, emphasizing the need for deep self-reflection and potentially seeking support from professionals. They highlighted the significance of being witnessed in one's grief and the role of community and validation in the healing journey. Sharna also introduced her podcast, "What I Wish I Knew Beyond Pregnancy Loss," as a resource for those navigating similar experiences.

In this deeply insightful episode, Ashley Holmes is joined by Dr. Ashish Paul for a powerful conversation on holistic fertility, Ayurveda, nervous system healing, and conscious conception.

Together, they explore how chronic stress, unresolved trauma, burnout, and disconnection from feminine energy can impact fertility and conception. Dr. Paul shares Ayurvedic perspectives on infertility, including how Vata, Pitta, and Kapha constitutions influence reproductive health and why preparation for conception must involve both physical and emotional healing.

Ashley and Dr. Paul also discuss:
 • The hidden impact of stress on fertility
 • Why men’s fertility health deserves more attention
 • IVF, miscarriage, and emotional recovery
 • The importance of nervous system regulation and deep rest
 • Ojas and building reproductive vitality
 • Restorative healing practices including breathwork, Yoga Nidra, and hands-on therapy
 • Creating alignment, connection, and safety before conception

This episode offers a compassionate and holistic perspective for anyone navigating infertility, IVF, secondary infertility, miscarriage, or preparing consciously for pregnancy.

Connect with Ashley:
Instagram: @ashley_holmes3202
Email: yogaforfertility7@gmail.com

In this opening episode of Sacred Fertility Flow, Ashley Holmes sits down with her mentor, Madhu Sai, to explore the deeper layers of fertility beyond the physical body.

Together, they discuss:

• Why effort alone isn’t enough
• How your inner state influences conception
• The role of fear, control, and emotional patterns
• What it truly means to receive
• How Vedic Astrology can support your fertility journey

This episode is a powerful invitation to move from striving into flow—and to trust the intelligence of your body.



Here is the link to the special offer by Madhu Sai and Ashley
https://sacred-conception.my.canva.site/

 

👉 Connect with Ashley: yogaforfertility7@gmail.com
👉 Connect with Madhu Sai: madhu@thehappynesscenter.org

What if your fertility journey isn’t just physical… but deeply spiritual?

In this expansive and thought-provoking conversation, Ashley Holmes sits down with her guru, Sankara Bhagavadpada; a former theoretical nuclear physicist turned spiritual teacher with over five decades of inquiry into human consciousness.

Together, they unravel the unseen layers of infertility, exploring how:

• The mind’s fragmentation and societal conditioning impact your fertility experience
• Women carry unique pressures around motherhood—and how to rise beyond them
• Awareness, not effort, is the true catalyst for transformation
• The longing for motherhood can be honored without attachment or suffering
• Stillness, silence, and inner truth hold the key to self-liberation

Sankara Bhagavadpada introduces a powerful concept: “time is the mischief maker”. Revealing how the pressure of timelines can disconnect women from their innate wisdom and peace.

This episode also dives into conscious pregnancy, intention-setting, and how a mother’s inner world can shape the energetic foundation of her child.

If you are navigating fertility challenges, seeking deeper meaning, or longing to trust your body again, this conversation will meet you there.

A soulful podcast exploring fertility as a sacred journey of mind, body, and spirit—guiding you back into alignment and flow.
Through holistic teachings and heartfelt conversations, discover how to trust your body, honor your timing, and conceive your deepest desires.